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The dark side and bright side

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The dark side, for examples

The top shocking reason for alarmingly high divorce rate include:

  1. People jumped into marriage for wrong reasons;
  2. Lost individual identity;
  3. You're consumed with your parental duties;
  4. You don't share the same vision of success;
  5. You handle finances in a completely different way.
  6. You can't fix your problems without a fight.

- By Lisa L. Payne, Kim Olver & Deborah Roth

The 3 Major Causes of Divorce:

1. Laziness:

People don't want to work at marriage. There is a misguided belief that marriage will make us happy. What happens when both become disillusioned with their marriage? They start looking outside themselves to define the problems in the marriage instead of looking at the situation and asking, "What can I do to make things better?"

2. Lack of Communication Skills:

Pure and simple, people don't know how to talk to each other and they know even less about listening. The most important conversations people have are with a spouse yet they put so little effort into wisely expressing their feelings and openly listening to their spouse. Poor or no communication will lead to growing apart, it will also impact your children because you are not setting a good example for them. If you are not able to communicate about the good AND bad in your marriage, there is no way to feel fully secure in the marriage.

3. High Expectations:

Expectations and laziness can go hand in hand when it comes to predicting whether a marriage will end in divorce. Divorce can be and is avoided by those willing to work hard at marriage, those who know how to effectively communicate and those whose expectations are realistic. Men and women both make a lot of assumptions when it comes to marriage and what to expect from a marriage. These assumptions are based on many variables and problems arise when the outcome (marriage) doesn't meet the assumptions or expectations.

Marriages have to be nurtured, if not they fall victim to a myriad of problems. Are you nurturing your marriage?

- By Cathy Meyer Divorce Support Expert

So, as we knew it, what will we do?

None of us born known how to date or marry, willing to grow and grow together are the keys for true love and better quality of marriage.

So what could we learn from the success and failure? How do we grow maturely ready for true love seeking and maintaining successful relationship?

The bright side, for examples:

Actually, a lot brilliant people knew it and they had great research and some of them also share with us their life experience. You only need to google them and learn. There's plenty of great articles, topics and videos made by sagacious experts collection, university research, consultant study just like some of these examples we collect for you in this article. And we will keep doing this to inspire ourselves and we can talk about them in each of our meet-up. Cultures and love topics are part of our real life meet-up.

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Come to join our meet up to share and learn life experience about love, relationship through lively mutual cultural interactive activities.

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